Is having a disability something I should talk about?

Its funny..,half my life I have lived without knowing what I have but once I do it's not like anything really changes. A part of me wants to declare it proudly so maybe people with it wont be so afraid but then again just because something has good intentions doesn't mean it wont backfire. People might forsake me further, but hey it's not like they won't find out sooner or later. I also worry how big am impact it might have on my family. The fact that my thing is gentic makes things even more complicated. Oh decisions, decisions.
In case u are wondering what I have is Asperger's Syndrome.

this should explain further